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my ex's pressure to get me to buy her a ring and marry her was one of the major reasons i broke up with her.

 

example of everyday conversation:

 

"you should buy me a diamond."

 

"i don't have the money to buy your a ring right now...plus, i'd like to graduate college and get a career before i think about getting married."

 

"pretty please?"

 

"that doesn't really put the money in my chequing account."

 

"well...you can take out a loan and pay it back a little bit at a time."

 

"thats exactly what i need. more bills that i can struggle to pay off."

 

"fine. you don't love me"

 

<don't talk for 3 days>

 

<make up sex>

 

"you should buy me a ring."

 

and this repeated and I put up with it longer than I really should have.

 

but now its over and i couldn't be happier.

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That you should get a divorce?

 

Satty and i were discussing this earlier, actually.

Does everyone just grow away from their significant other, and just deny it?

I am not looking forward to finding out if that's true ;)

i don't know. at this point in my life i don't believe monogamy is possible.

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i can't wait to get married. i think the 50% divorce rate is because people are lazy and instead of getting councelling they just get a divorce. there are people who should get divorces, but i think a lot of them just need to suck it up.

There is a 50% divorce rate because people marry the wrong people in the first place and forget to realize that when you get married your spouse comes first and not the guys/girls or shopping or sports or what have you. I guess people forgot how to be in a relationship.

 

Or maybe there is a higher divorce rate because now that more women have a sustainable income than 50 years ago, they don't have to stick with their husband if they want to eat, and these problems always existed. Fifty years ago, if the man in the household was abusive to the wife and kids, there likely wasn't an option for the woman. Nowadays, she can get out of there without being run into the poor house.

 

Personally, I'm a little bit scared at the prospect of a relationship. I'd be way too insecure telling someone else how I feel or things that I wouldn't want other people finding out. Heck, I'd be insecure letting somebody else know that I like them or anything like that. ;) And it doesn't help matters that, living with my parents, they'd have to know about it all (something I'd be even less comfortable with).

 

Yeah...

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my ex's pressure to get me to buy her a ring and marry her was one of the major reasons i broke up with her.

 

example of everyday conversation:

 

"you should buy me a diamond."

 

"i don't have the money to buy your a ring right now...plus, i'd like to graduate college and get a career before i think about getting married."

 

"pretty please?"

 

"that doesn't really put the money in my chequing account."

 

"well...you can take out a loan and pay it back a little bit at a time."

 

"thats exactly what i need. more bills that i can struggle to pay off."

 

"fine. you don't love me"

 

<don't talk for 3 days>

 

<make up sex>

 

"you should buy me a ring."

 

and this repeated and I put up with it longer than I really should have.

 

but now its over and i couldn't be happier.

BAHAHAHA omg i feel so sorry for you man, im not laughing at the situation im laughing at how rediculous she sounds. How can you possibly offord diamonds and what not when your still a student thats madness.

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my ex's pressure to get me to buy her a ring and marry her was one of the major reasons i broke up with her.

 

example of everyday conversation:

 

"you should buy me a diamond."

 

"i don't have the money to buy your a ring right now...plus, i'd like to graduate college and get a career before i think about getting married."

 

"pretty please?"

 

"that doesn't really put the money in my chequing account."

 

"well...you can take out a loan and pay it back a little bit at a time."

 

"thats exactly what i need.  more bills that i can struggle to pay off."

 

"fine. you don't love me"

 

<don't talk for 3 days>

 

<make up sex>

 

"you should buy me a ring."

 

and this repeated and I put up with it longer than I really should have.

 

but now its over and i couldn't be happier.

BAHAHAHA omg i feel so sorry for you man, im not laughing at the situation im laughing at how rediculous she sounds. How can you possibly offord diamonds and what not when your still a student thats madness.

Thank You!!!!!

 

 

 

The whole still a student/lack of money thing...did that not cross her mind??????

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but i'm a hopeless romantic (stress the word 'hopeless')

 

the sex was fun, lost my virginity to her (to Avalanche no less), i just need more in a relationship. i am looking for someone to share all of life's ups and downs with (i know, ups and downs=sex, funny) and i wasn't getting that with her.

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my ex's pressure to get me to buy her a ring and marry her was one of the major reasons i broke up with her.

 

example of everyday conversation:

 

"you should buy me a diamond."

 

"i don't have the money to buy your a ring right now...plus, i'd like to graduate college and get a career before i think about getting married."

 

"pretty please?"

 

"that doesn't really put the money in my chequing account."

 

"well...you can take out a loan and pay it back a little bit at a time."

 

"thats exactly what i need. more bills that i can struggle to pay off."

 

"fine. you don't love me"

 

<don't talk for 3 days>

 

<make up sex>

 

"you should buy me a ring."

 

and this repeated and I put up with it longer than I really should have.

 

but now its over and i couldn't be happier.

That made me laugh. I hope you're still not smoking.

 

And to the naysayers who posted naysaying things, I say good job to sodamntired.

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Can I ask how people get into relationships with people that are so wrong for them?

 

Really.

It's so easy.

 

I don't know how to explain it.

 

It starts off so awesome, then everything dies.

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***UPDATE***

 

 

this shit just gets better and better for me.

 

i know, its boring, what do you care about some guy that you don't know that posts on a board, but i'm really excited about this update, i've been telling everybody.

 

i got a date for new year's.

 

and its with a girl that i met freshman year of college and absolutely had a major crush on.

 

and she told me that she had told her roommate that she wants to be making out with a guy at the strike of midnight.

 

so i'm excited.

 

as you were

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